
Out of that pain,
she discovered…

The Journey of the Lotus Blossom…
The lotus flower is a sacred symbol of resilience, beauty, and rebirth. Rooted in muddy waters, the lotus rises each day toward the light—opening its petals in full bloom despite its beginnings.
At Lotus By Love, we see the same strength reflected in every woman’s womb journey. Our reproductive organs carry us through an ever-changing landscape: painful cycles, the power of fertility and childbirth, the wisdom of menopause, and the quiet strength of simply maintaining balance day by day.
For our founder, this journey was not just symbolic—it was lived. She endured humiliating experiences with vaginal odor, unbearable menstrual cycles, and carried the weight of a maternal family history of womb disease. What was often treated as shame, silence, or “just a woman’s burden” became the muddy waters she was determined to rise from.
Out of that pain, she discovered ancestral practices, herbal remedies, and the power of community. And from that discovery, Lotus By Love was born—a sacred space for women to reclaim their bodies, their stories, and their healing.
That vision grew into Cootois’ Vaginal Steam & Education Parties—intimate gatherings where women could learn, laugh, and heal together. In these safe and sister-centered spaces, guests not only experience the ancient practice of steaming but also shed shame, break silence, and connect over truths rarely spoken in public.
Today, Lotus By Love continues to bloom as more than a brand—it is a movement. We create herbal personal care products, curate women-centered events, and offer education that affirms the wholeness of women at every stage of life.
Because just like the lotus, every woman is meant to rise, flourish, and bloom—no matter the waters she has come through.

Because just like the lotus, every woman is meant to rise, flourish, and bloom—no matter the waters she has come through.
- Rev. Dr. Love Holt, Founder